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His blue eyes, once bright and vibrant, were now dull and devoid of any love he might have had. Those were laid downcast, staring at the dying grass beneath him. “I can’t tell you how sorry I am.”, ,“For. What?”, ,“For leaving you.” He turned to her now. Redness clouded the whites of his eyes. “I have to do this for me.”, ,Valarie bit her bottom lip. A chuckle rumbled in her chest and ceased as soon as it arrived. “You always sucked at communication. Without a lick of explanation, you drop off those damn papers, say you’re leaving, and then you’re going to drive off with my car.”, ,“We agreed to pay half and half on it.”, ,“It’s under my name!”, ,Eric balled his fists. “Do you want the damn car back?”, ,“No! I want my husband to talk to me!”, ,To stand before her as if they were strangers…,local singles Lane Murray Prison, ,Valarie crossed her arms. She allowed her tears to fall. 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I’ve spent 6 years with you and not once did you think to talk to me?”, ,“You know I’m not good with talking about myself.”, ,“You seem to do it just fine with Rian.”,transgender dating Blng Spg Lks, ,Eric’s shoulder bounced as he laughed. It was a terrible sound. He shook his head and gave her his side profile. “I need to go.”, ,dating older men Lake Suzy,“What makes you think life will be better with her?” Eric paused as Valarie continued. “If you can’t talk to me about your feelings and if you can’t confide in me about your needs and your upsets, what makes you think you’ll do that with someone else?”,speed dating near me Yarmouth, ,Eric gave her his back…that red plaid shirted back that clung to his body. Jet black hair covered most of the shirt…hair that she once grabbed, washed, and brushed. “Because I just know that I’ll feel better with her like you’ll feel better when you find your someone.”, ,“I thought I did, Eric, and he’s leaving me for another woman.”, ,Eric froze. 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Since you’re so smart, why didn’t you say anything about it or change yourself? Why do I have to be the one to address everything?”, ,adult personals Commerce Twp,“Who’s the one that’s upset here?”,dating over 50 Villa Del Monte,asian dating Annapolis, ,“You are! Because you’re mad about me taking care of me!”, ,“Why would I be mad at you leaving?”, ,“Because I’m leaving you alone!” Realization dawned upon him. His face softened. Eric’s body calmed as the words sank in. Valarie ceased her tears a while ago. Emotions seeped from her face. She stared at Eric without a light in her eyes. “Valarie…”, ,“You can leave me, I don’t care. I just want to know one thing: Will this new person, woman or otherwise, help you actually improve your life?”, ,Valarie's mother always taught her to let people go. Holding onto a relationship that didn’t work only wasted time and energy. Being left by her husband hurt her terribly, but it wasn’t the end of the world. 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You’re the one that brought them.”, ,“I’ll pick them up tomorrow morning.”, ,“I have work tomorrow, Eric.”, ,“Then I’ll pick them up in the evening.”, ,Valarie nearly laughed again. “Wow, you’ve lost all respect and consideration for me already.”, ,Once upon a time, he made dinners for her when she was tired. He’d cleaned the house, washed the dishes, washed her body, and even massaged her feet. Once, he did a puppet show at home to help her smile after her mother died. Eric used to be considerate, compassionate, and deeply, emotionally attuned., ,Valarie knew very well that life could change a person. The events of the outside world had nothing to do with her. The most that Valarie could do was work on herself and accept the world and its phases as is., ,Accepting this was completely different. Valarie’s mother, who had been married for 54 years, couldn’t possibly train Valarie for such an event as this. 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Valarie figured that leaving someone would be easy, especially since Eric deemed himself as someone in such a “terrible state.” His reaction seemed to be the exact opposite., ,As he turned away and headed to the car, Valarie watched him depart from the house. His muddied footprints were deep. His steps were stern. His back was solid and firm. He entered the car without looking back. The engine rumbled loudly, echoing throughout the entire neighborhood., ,local singles Ferndale,Eric reversed his Camaro. He had tinted windows, but Valarie saw his face clear as day. He was crying. He reversed out of the driveway and then sped down the street with black smoke marking the path behind him.,Valarie wrapped her arms around herself and finally allowed herself to hear the world around her. The rain bombarded her ears. TV ads screamed at her to buy something for spouses. The neighborhood dog was barking in response to Eric’s car - as usual. 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