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Walt’s rough voice made Michael cry even louder but Walt did not notice.,  “Bring him in here,” Jane said as she directed Paula to a little den. Walt remained in his TV torpor., Paula laid Michael on the sofa. She stood up and then shivered. Jane smiled. “How about something to warm you up?” she asked. Paula nodded. Jane left and came back with a bottle of wine and two glasses. Paula watched Jane pour the wine, took her glass, and sipped.,  “Nice,” she complimented. Paula hoped Michael would fall back to sleep. They sat quietly. After a few sips of wine, she began to speak., “Have you ever wondered why we’re here?” Paula asked. The question surprised Jane, but she did not reply. “I do, all the time,” Paula continued. Her voice soothed Michael and he stopped crying. “I mean- this little guy, why is he here? Why are you here…Why am I?” Her voice trailed off., “I used to wonder why I was here,” Jane said pensively. “But I always told myself it was a meaningless question. As I’ve gotten older, it’s come back now and then.”,date you West Akron, “Most people think the ‘purpose of life’ is some grand thing each of us is here to do,” Paula continued. Jane nodded and sipped her wine. “But what if it isn’t? What if you weren’t here for some impressive task like saving the world? What if you’re just here to take out the garbage, or change a tire, or because a friend needed you, or maybe just to smell the roses? How would you feel?”, “I’d feel relieved,” Jane said. Her answer startled Paula., “Really? Why?”, “Because saving the world is so hard,” Jane replied. “I could do that other stuff you mentioned.” They sipped their wine. It warmed them up. They remained quietly lost in their thoughts., “For a long time I thought I was here to do something special but I could never figure out what it was,” Paula continued. “Now that I’m older, I worry that I already did it but I still don’t know what it was. Isn’t that weird?” Jane knew her friend was not raising a philosophical issue but an emotional one., “I think I do understand you, Paula. You’re not asking, ‘Why am I here?’ What you mean is, ‘Why do I have to suffer?’” Paula nodded dejectedly. They again fell silent. Then Jane asked, “Speaking of suffering… have you noticed how similar our lives are?”, “What do you mean?”,dating 55+ Colliervl, “You have a child to take care of,” Jane said. Paula’s daughter Kathleen moved in after she left her abusive husband. She brought her infant son Michael. Kathleen ran away a week later but left Michael behind. Paula became a mother again at forty. She tried to recall all the care and attention infants needed. Jane was helping her to cope.,dating 40 year old woman Quemado, “And I have what amounts to a child,” Jane continued. A disastrous car accident left Walt with amnesia. They had been a happy and passionate couple. Now he had only vague memories of his life before the crash. 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